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Inattention in adult life
Adult inattention rarely looks like daydreaming. It looks like twelve open browser tabs, a task you have restarted four times, and an inbox you avoid because opening it feels physically uncomfortable.
The pattern people describe most often is capability that does not translate into output: you understand the work, you can do the work, and yet the gap between intention and action is where the day disappears.
02
Hyperactivity becomes internal
Childhood hyperactivity often turns inward with age. Instead of leaving your seat, you scroll, talk over people, take on a third job, or feel an engine running that will not idle.
Many adults only notice it in the negative: the exhaustion of never being off, and the difficulty of sitting through an evening without a second screen.
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Emotional regulation and rejection sensitivity
Emotional intensity is not in the formal diagnostic criteria, but it is one of the most commonly reported experiences. Feelings arrive at full volume and take longer to come back down.
Rejection sensitivity — a sharp, physical response to criticism or perceived exclusion — is often the symptom that finally drives someone to seek an assessment.
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What would not be ADHD
Difficulty concentrating that started in your thirties is more likely to be sleep, thyroid, iron, anxiety, depression, perimenopause or burnout. ADHD is a lifelong pattern, not a new one.
A good assessment looks for the childhood history and rules the alternatives in or out rather than skipping past them.