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Why the night runs long
Evening is often the first quiet, unstructured time of the day, and it is when interest-driven attention finally has room. Stopping means giving that up, which is why bedtime resistance persists into adulthood.
Delayed sleep phase — a body clock genuinely set later — is common in ADHD, so willpower at 1am is the wrong lever.
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What moves the needle
A fixed wake time seven days a week, bright light within an hour of waking, and an alarm that marks the end of the day rather than the start of bed.
Move the friction earlier: charge the phone outside the bedroom, decide the next morning's first task before the evening starts, and treat 'one more episode' as a decision you have already made.
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When to get it checked
Loud snoring, witnessed pauses in breathing, restless legs or persistent early waking need clinical assessment in their own right. Stimulant timing can also delay sleep and is worth reviewing with your prescriber.